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怎樣看網上情緣呢 ? 你會嗎? 我是說在網上朝夕相對, 然後喜歡對方, 在鍵盤上輸入每天的思念, 有人說不可能, 有人卻可以繫了一生心. 大家還沒見過面呢.

同時間愛上幾個人可以麼, 現實生活較困難, 始終包不住火, 在網上隱瞞事可容易得多. 且看是否要天長地久的愛, 又或者一剎的光輝已足以回味.

這樣精神上的戀愛, 會容易脫離現實, 會很飄浮. 可是又有不少人樂此不疲, 不是喜歡擅於愛情遊戲, 而是沒有勇氣去一生一世地愛.


後記於30 JULY 2006
網友 peter 的回應, 很值得看:

I guess this kind of "relationship" is nothing new. Many people have fell in love through correspondence since the time of surface mail... I also have such an experience in the mid 1980s with a girl in Seoul. It was different from chasing after a girl in the same school but the relationship was real for me, anyway... Maybe I felt so because my parents maintained their relationship through letters. (My father was a ship captain and always away from home and around the Middle East or Australia.)I guess the only difference is the medium and the speed of communication. Well, this lightspeed communication has changed this kind of relationship a lot, though...